The Stories Behind The Story . . . .

A few days ago I was waiting on the world’s slowest printer to finish a job. I know – new ones are very affordable and high quality. However,  I can be cheap, er . . . uh, I mean “frugal” at times. While I was waiting for the papers to come out, I started staring at the two shelves packed with books above the printer. I looked closely at each book spine and started to reflect on why I had that book. Memories of people and places started flooding my mind. I also started to think about if it was given by someone, or what made me purchase it, and even what was going on in my life during that time period.

Special thanks to my grade school teachers and my mother for encouraging me to read and develop a love for it. However, I do have a horrible habit now of reading 2-3 books at a time (anyone else out there does this?) Below is a tiny sample of a few books that stood out and why:

  1.  The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings – I originally checked out these from our school library back in 5th grade (the 70s!) – those tales were unlike anything I had ever read before. It still is my favorite non-fiction story. Those books also helped me discover the fantasy genre and peaked my interest in drawing.
  2. Building Your Mate’s Self Esteem – one of four required reading texts during our premarital counseling over 27 years ago. Timeless advice regarding the way we speak to our spouse. We learned the concept of how our words can create an upward or downward spiral in our relationship. That once you verbally proclaim something – it’s out there! The entire book is based on Proverbs 18:21: “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.”
  3. Wild at Heart – I was visiting a church for the first time on Father’s Day almost 17 years ago. At end of the service, the pastor casually mentioned picking up a copy of it for the men. No thanks, I had read enough men’s books to last a lifetime. About 3 months later – I saw one copy of it on the shelf at Half Price Books. I felt like it was whispering to me to buy it. To avoid hearing any more voices, I hesitantly purchased it. The book then sat on my shelf at home for about 3-4 months. For whatever reason, I picked it up one day and decided to start reading it. Besides the Bible, it has been the most impactful book on my life. It was if the author, John Eldredge was having a one-on-one counseling session with me over a cup of coffee. I had the chance to meet him at one of his retreats back in 2004, and now I read everything he cranks out.
  4. Paul Harvey’s The Rest of The Story – Was published in 1977, but given to me by my late grandfather when he saw I had an interest in reading it when I’d visit his home. Thinking about this book brings back great memories of both sets of my grandparents and the times that we shared. It also triggered thoughts of listening to Mr. Harvey on the radio while we drove to and from school – anxiously awaiting – what was the rest of the story??? (Some of you youngsters have no idea what I’m talking about).

It was an amazing mental exercise – almost every book had either people, a feeling, an event or a place attached to it. My encouragement is for you to give it a try. Find a quiet moment. Take a look at your book collection. Think about why you bought it, or who gave it to you, and what was going on in your life during that time? Get lost in the people, sights, and sounds. Maybe it was a difficult time period of your life. It could be time to pray for healing and extend forgiveness to the offending party. Or it might open a vault of happy memories and remind you of how far you’ve come on your journey.

If you’re comfortable – please share a title or two in the comments or on FB, and why that book is important to you.

Blessings,

Dave 🙂

 

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Did Jesus Have An “Indiana Jones” Moment?

In answer to the question in the header, He actually had several during His time on earth. But we’ll get to that in a moment. First, we must ask: Was Jesus more like Indiana Jones (strong, adventurer, fearless, calm under pressure, takes on evil), or a hippie from the Woodstock era? If we take a sincere look inside our minds – it is amazing what stained glass images and preconceived notions we have of Him. As I’ve traveled to different countries or visited a variety of museums – it is interesting the vast amount of interpretations that are out there. Any of these sound familiar? Him wearing a flowing robe similar to Obi-Wan Kenobi, Dumbledore, or Gandalf? Bearded and long-haired, sometimes neatly parted down the middle? Pale complexion, thin, monotone, frequently using the gesture of the “peace sign” in His travels – or one hand lifted up as He is teaching a group of eager listeners? Tender Jesus meek and mild? Author John Eldredge makes this observation in his book Beautiful Outlaw:

” . . . But is this the Jesus of our worship songs? The religious fog sneaks in to obscure Jesus with lines comparing him to, ‘a rose trampled on the ground.’ Helpless, lovely Jesus. Vegetarian, pacifist, tranquil. Oh, wait – that was Gandhi. Not Jesus.” (pg. 37)

Sometimes we forget:

He sternly took foul spirits head on and they fled  (a possible Indy moment!). Luke 4:35

He cleared a temple of crooks and animals with a whip (definite Indy moment!). John 2:15

As a carpenter, he didn’t have chainsaws or power saws. Rugged tools, rough wood, and working in the harsh Middle East heat (he was tough like Indy!). Mark 6:3

His presence was so strong, it pushed a group of soldiers back. John 18: 4-6

He didn’t care what people thought about Him because He knew His purpose, and the only One He needed to please was His Heavenly Father. Mark 12: 13-14

He walked everywhere – had to be in top-notch shape and have amazing endurance. Researchers estimate He walked over 15,000 miles during His lifetime.

I read this scripture a few weeks ago, and it helped me start thinking a completely new perspective:

“Therefore they were seeking again to seize Him, and He eluded their grasp.” (John 10:39). “He eluded their grasp” in the past to me had been an image of Him racing through the crowd like a darting running back heading for the end zone. My Bible commentary conveniently skips explaining this verse. Another commentary I looked at states, “No explanation is given as to how he escaped.”  The King James version of the verse says, “Therefore they sought again to take Him: but He escaped out of their hand.” Two similar incidents are found in John 8:59 & Luke 4:30, and my commentary suggests “a miracle occurred” regarding his escape. Possibly. Maybe. Could have. We are left to wonder.

In my OPINION, here’s what I think happened based on two things:

  1. The multitude of ways Jesus displayed masculinity in the instances mentioned in the list above.
  2. The context of the way the religious authorities were treating Him. He was speaking the truth, and they were harassing Him (John 9:40, John 10:19,20, John 10: 24-26, and John 10:33).

I completely understand it was not His time to be taken into captivity that would ultimately lead to His death on the cross. So maybe he did vanish into thin air, swiftly eluded those after Him, or secretly sneak into the alleyway and hide until the bad guys were gone.

However, I choose to believe He aggressively took them on – and they backed off. “Their grasp” and “escaped out of their hand” seems to me they started to put their hands on Him. His response? I THINK He pulled away from whoever was grabbing Him with a yank or swim move while staring that person or persons down. Maybe He gave a slight shove to remind them who they were messing with. Perhaps those ready to stone Him dropped the rocks from their hands in an unspoken surrender. Then, quite possibly, the small crowd parted like the Red Sea as He confidently walked away because He had enough of their #$%&* for one day. Walked away, didn’t run.

I could be way off – but I like my version of the story. What are your thoughts? Please comment below 🙂

Blessings,

Dave 🙂

 

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I Should Have Won The Powerball Jackpot . . .

Let’s be honest. When you heard about the recent $738 million Powerball – you started fantasizing how you would spend all of that money when you won (I did). Mansions, exotic travel, dining with celebrities, purchasing your own island in The Carribean . . . the possibilities are endless. Oh yes, almost forgot – we all usually add in, “I’d also give a lot of it away . . . ”

The news reported that with taxes, the lump sum payment would only be about $350 million. We could all probably still make it – however, it would require budgeting somewhere between $25-$50 million a year. I’m still confused how I hope to win it when I don’t buy the tickets???

If not the lottery, then maybe that oil lease I signed 5 years ago will finally produce “black gold” that could lead to some Beverly Hillbillies action on our land. We’ve been waiting patiently, checking the mailbox every other day. I guess it would help if they actually had some type of drilling operation going on near our home.

Maybe I just need to go ahead and give my bank account number to that Arabian Prince who keeps emailing me saying he has too much money, and all he needs is access to my account in order to share in my portion of his inheritance. I still can’t believe he is that kind and generous to offer me millions – and we haven’t even met!

Let’s face it. Winning it all initially sounds great. However, we all know the truth. Something deep inside of us thrives on hard work, perseverance, and the satisfaction of a job well done. The pride from finishing painting the interior of your home without having to hire someone. Laying down a couple of pallets of sod by yourself (or with a reluctant teenager). Working overtime to pay off that dreadful credit card or college loan. Finally getting that degree or certification you have sacrificed years to obtain. Several months ago I saw this quote by Natalia Wiechowski on LinkedIn and absolutely loved it:

“I am not lucky, not blessed, not talented. Ask my family and closest friends! When others “chilled”, I worked. When others partied, I studied. When others went on a holiday, I learned. If you want the life of your dreams, stop believing that only a small amount of “gifted” people deserve the very best in life. That is a lie to keep you unhappy, mediocre, and small. Start working relentlessly toward your targets instead. No lame excuses. Daily actions, please.” 

Wow, she doesn’t hold back any punches. Solid advice. Let me know how it goes as you pursue your targets. Author Jon Gordon (and I) firmly believe “your best days are ahead of you and not behind you!”

“Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will stand before kings; He will not stand before obscure men.”  (Proverbs 22:29)

Blessings,

Dave 🙂

 

P.S. Please check out the new “Learning” section at http://www.davidrische.com. It features links to articles on Teaching Strategies, Continous Improvement, and Leadership – plus other stuff that doesn’t fit into neat and tidy categories 🙂

 

 

 

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Experiencing Your Breakthrough This Year

“It’s the ‘hard’ that makes it great. Otherwise, everybody would be doing it.”  Tom Hanks

2017 could possibly be the year that you pursue a challenge or dream that has been on your mind for a while. Could this be the opportunity for you to: go back to school or take a class, record a song, start a blog, audition for a part, interview for a promotion, start a business, teach a class, pursue a new hobby, try out for a team, write a book, etc.? Whatever it is – by strengthening yourself and your unique skill set – the ripple effect leads to impacting lives beyond your normal sphere of influence.

I continue to be amazed at the link between hard work and perseverance leading to success:

*JK Rowling’s Harry Potter idea was rejected by 12 publishers.

*Magician Criss Angel gets about 4 hours of sleep a night because he is continually perfecting his routine in Vegas. Oh, BTW, he makes over $150 million annually.

*Comedian Jay Leno worked biker bars and had food thrown at him while doing his routine.

*That struggling truck driver named Elvis knew he had something unique to offer to the world of music.

What about you and I? What practical steps can we take to experience a breakthrough in our area that brings us delight? I was recently reviewing notes I took from an “Influence and Impact Seminar” hosted by Micheal Hyatt (a GREAT person to follow on Twitter).  Michael interviewed a wide variety of high achievers. I was fascinated by the common threads each of the individuals had in their personal testimony. Below are four key points I gleaned from their wisdom and experiences.

1) They all had (and continue to have) fear.

“There is something amazing on the other end of your fear.” Pat Flynn

“‘I’m afraid’ is the most common theme, and it is a lie that you’re alone. Become more afraid of not trying something.” Jeff Goins

“Action cures fear. Procrastination and indulgence are really just creditors that charge us interest.” Rory Vaden

“There are trolls, and constructive critics, learn to ignore the trolls.” Crystal Paine

2) They started from humble beginnings and embraced a hard work ethic.

Dave Ramsey typed his first book at the kitchen table using Microsoft Works (yuck!). He would work on the book from 10 pm until 2 am after his children went to bed.

Lewis Howes refers to himself as an “8 year overnight success.” He would offer to apprentice and work for free to learn from the experts in his field.

John Maxwell was the pastor of a church that started with 3 people.

Rory Vaden and a friend divided the Yellow Pages in half to call everyone possible offering to speak their message for free. His philosophy is that “stage time is the secret to being a great speaker.”

Chris Brogan wrote a blog for 8 years that “basically he and his mother read” until he had his first 100 readers.

Jeff Goins quit his job and disciplined himself to write every single day until his first book became published.

3) Their focus changed to serving and adding value to others.

Crystal Paine advises, “Go back to your ‘Why?’ You want to be able to say ‘I did something that mattered with my life.’”

“Serve your audience, earnings are a by-product of how well I’ve served.” Pat Flynn

“It’s hard to be nervous when your heart’s on service.” Rory Vaden

“Every day do something to encourage and add value to people.” John Maxwell

“If your dream is so small and you don’t need a team – you need a bigger dream.” Jeff Goins

4) They make mistakes, have critics, and yet keep moving forward.

“Be prepared for the work and critics, just go do it!” Dave Ramsey

Bob Goff’s view on critics: “They’re smarter than me, they’re probably right, and they’re probably having a bad day.”

“People give up too soon, we want instant success.” Crystal Paine

“Even performing poorly – a goal can be completed. It is a journey over years. People don’t see the work that leads up to the big win. People get discouraged and quit right before the breakthrough.” Lewis Howes

“Our greatest detriment is taking ourselves too serious. Don’t let perfection get in the way. Just laugh at yourself.” John Maxwell

 

My goal is that one of these phrases or ideas caught your attention, and you want to move from thought to action. Hopefully, 2017 can be our greatest year of impact yet! Who knows, maybe you’ll someday be interviewed for the next “High Achiever Seminar”???

The world need your gift, and the world needs your story.” Crystal Paine

“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them.”  Ephesians 2:10

Blessings,

Dave 🙂

 

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4 Paths to Powerful Peace

Even though it is summer, do you feel like “I can’t keep up”? By keeping up I’m referring to:  the latest crisis in the news, current events, social media postings, Netflix recommendations, stacks of unread books, bursting email inboxes, text messages, etc., etc., etc. When I read this newsletter paragraph from an organization called Ransomed Heart, I can completely relate:

First, a friend shared with me how much he was enjoying a podcast by a thoughtful NPR commentator, and the nuggets of insight were impressive. A few hours later a different friend mentioned how much they were getting out of another podcast. I thought to myself, I’d better subscribe to those; they sound really good and I feel like I’m not keeping up with the trends. That afternoon, Stasi said something about some world news event she had just read about, and I thought, Wow – I am not keeping up on global happenings. I’d better do more of that, too. During a meeting the next day, someone makes a reference to a well-known ministry when everyone else at the table nods like they knew the story, and I’m wondering, Wow – I have no idea what is going on in the church world; I need to keep up. Meanwhile during the same meeting everyone was checking their cell phones for messages, updates, and news . . .  The cumulative effect of all this – and I am describing a fairly benign and ordinary week – was to have a large part of me feeling woefully ill-informed, and grossly out of touch with all sorts of important matters. Shame was not far behind, followed by the scrambling we do to “get back on top of things.”

Sound familiar? Deep inside – I think we all know the truth. We can’t get caught up! If we embrace that concept, some of the pressure starts to subside. What is a true priority to us starts to clarify. Here are 4 ways to enhance your journey toward inner peace:

  1. Mornings (or evenings if you’re a night owl) – Whatever time fits you, as long as you have a margin of space when things quiet down, and you can be alone. Reflect on the good and bad of the day. Count your blessings and be thankful. Think, calm down, pray. Try sitting still. Read. Veg watching a classic movie.
  2. Making Memories – Be the one who takes the initiative for doing something. Schedule that overdue visit with someone at Starbucks. Pull out a board game or puzzle for family or friends. Try a new vacation spot. Stay in a nice hotel for an evening. If money is tight – go on a bike trek. Explore the library or a museum. My son recently shared one of his favorite childhood memories was fishing at Bear Creek. All I can remember were tangled lines, turtles getting our hooks in their mouths, and my impatience and frustration at not catching anything but maybe once or twice during all those years. Funny how kids see things clearer than we do. It wasn’t about the fish, it was about the time.
  3. Mental – choosing a positive attitude in spite of circumstances. Author Jon Gordon talks about how when we get hit unexpectedly with a challenge, we basically have a quarter of a second to choose positive instead of negative thoughts. It’s tough, but try it. At first, the positive sounds a little hokey or “pie in the skyish”. But the longer you engage in the practice, the positive thoughts start to become more authentic – and creative solutions start unveiling themselves. You will actually begin to feel better emotionally and mentally – and look at your situation with hope and possibilities instead of gloom and doom.
  4. Miles (okay, being outdoors – I struggled to find an “M” word for it) – Texas summers make this tough, but every now and then we get a cloud cover or a rainstorm to cool things off. C.S. Lewis believed that if you were physically capable – every person should take a walk everyday. Walking, hiking, biking, going to the park, sports, gardening, swimming, BBQ, washing the car or dogs, fixing stuff – anything that gives you an excuse to get outside.

“Be still and know that I am God.” (Psalm 46: 10) We could all use a little more of being still. . . .

Please comment below – what is your favorite way of pursuing inner peace?

Blessings,

Dave 🙂

 

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Practical Advice From The Navy Seals Part 2

A heart-felt thanks to those selfless individuals that gave the ultimate sacrifice while serving in our armed forces. We honor you this past Memorial Day weekend, and the other 364 days of the year.

Back in November of 2015, I wrote a blog about life insights from The Navy Seals. According to statistical feedback – it has been one of my most read blogs. Somehow a connection was forged on how ordinary people like you and I could take on the habits of legendary warriors like the Navy Seals. There is so much information out there, I wanted to share more. In case you missed it, here were the three key points that were highlighted last time:

  • SEALs are incredibly punctual
  • SEALs push their bodies and minds to the extreme 
  • SEALs carefully select what words they use

Here are three more insights for our reflection:

  • SEALs use the basics of deep breathing to calm down and focus on their mission – Whether in training or on the battlefield, Navy Seals have to be at their sharpest mentally at all times. The majority of the time they are physically and emotionally exhausted. Mark Divine, author of The Way of the Seal discusses deep breathing during several portions of his book. When under stress, afraid, or surprised – we enter into fight or flight mode – and that includes not breathing properly. He states, “Before you can take control of you mind, you must first calm it down. The fastest way to calm your mind, along with your body, is through slow and controlled deep breathing . . . This settling practice helps reduce mental chatter, prevents your mind from wandering, and is generally a great boost to your self-control efforts. It will also rebalance your nervous system and reduce harmful physiological effects associated with fear and stress.” (pg. 34-35)
  • You and I – Try it now. Take in a deep breath with your nose and mouth, fill your lungs with air, and slowly exhale through your mouth for 5 seconds. Do it at least two more times and you should feel better. This is a great skill to quickly use before a tough conversation, an interview, a presentation, speaking up when we are normally silent, when we feel anger coming on, when we’re lost, stuck in traffic, late for an appointment, even helping our kids de-escalate from a tantrum – basically when we are anxious or stressed about anything. Calming our breathing down puts us in the right mental state to think clearly, pray for guidance, complete our task,  and look for solutions instead of dwelling on the problem. It is a quick fix to immediately feel better and reoriented.
  • SEALs break things down into the smallest increments  – They refer to it as “simplifying the battlefield.” It means eliminating distractions. Devine states: “When we eliminate distractions, we can better see the simple, elegant solutions and remain front-sight focused on the right way forward. Even elite teams can get distracted and veer toward the complex.” (pg.46-47) He talks about a training exercise potential recruits must pass to progress in his Seal Leadership Program. They take the normal push up position, and then have to maintain that position for 45 minutes. The majority fail the test the first time after about 5 minutes. Those that eventually pass the test have discovered the secret: you have to break the 45 minutes down into seconds – completely having your mind and body in that present moment, second by second, then minute by minute.and believing that you are far more capable of doing beyond what you envision your limitations are.
  •  You and I – Wow, distractions – where do I start? Just like the SEALs do, in small parts. Maybe developing the discipline of turning off our electronic devices for a set amount of time every day? Possibly moving into a different room to work on a project that requires concentration, or a school assignment. Setting a timer and giving laser-like focus to the task at hand until the set time is up. Perhaps being okay with unopened email. Increasing our face time with family and friends – and decreasing our virtual time with them. What about the 45 minute push-up example? What is overwhelming to us now that we need to break into small, manageable parts? Extreme example – I recently had the unpleasant adventure of flying from Dallas to Orlando while passing a kidney stone. I would not recommend you trying this at home. The first response was panic because I didn’t know what was wrong. Was a major organ giving out? Had I been bitten by a Brown Recluse Spider? Anyway, I started with short, deep breaths to try to calm my mind and body down. During those excruciating 3 hours – I also attempted to fill my mind with prayer, Bible passages, counting in my head from 1 – 100 while clearly visualizing each number, and positive mental images of puppies running joyfully through endless meadows. Though the pain remained, those practices helped provide a buffer until I could get medical attention.
  • SEALs put others needs above their own – The selflessness they display while defending our country. A job description that features the willingness to lay down their lives for a team member or someone in distress. How many disasters have they prevented that we don’t know about? Writer Jason King describes how he embraced this principle while attempting to pass the “surf torture challenge” portion of a SEAL Leadership Training. Imagine lying on the beach sand in sunny California listening to the waves gently crash into the shore. Sounds great doesn’t it? This exercise is slightly different. You still get to lay on the beach, but you are backwards – your head is closest to the water. You have locked both arms with the person next to you forming a giant human chain. And it isn’t a warm, sunny day – it is dreadfully cold water and air. You can hear the ocean rumbling and waves breaking but without seeing, you’re never sure when they will next wash over you or for how long.Here are snippets from King’s experience:

    From behind us, we could hear the 4-foot waves crashing in from the Pacific. The trouble was, we could never seem to get connected with the cadence of when they were going to next wash over our faces, filling our eyes, ears, throats and noses with sand, stones and seawater.

    The not knowing is part of how this “evolution” (Navy SEAL-speak for a really challenging exercise) gets the cheery name of “surf torture.” You don’t know when you’re next going to feel like you’re drowning. The task at hand is to manage your fear.

    So here’s what I learned and, actually, here’s how I learned it:

    While all of this is happening, something is washing over your mind as well: fear. Fear that you may be drowning. After all, our minds have a very ancient job to do, bestowed upon them by instinct: watch out for threats to our existence. It is natural then that during surf torture, your mind may start to wander and do its thing; running through various disaster scenarios, convinced that death could be rolling in with the next wave.

    Want to know the secret behind how to get through this evolution?

    Stop thinking about yourself and keep your eyes on the team.

    You see, if you get trapped in your own experience surf torture is absolutely just that: torture. It’s designed to be a psychological test even more than a physical one: You constantly feel like you could be drowning. With every wave, you feel like you’re going to get dragged out to sea. With every minute that ticks by, you get colder and have more trouble getting your breath and keeping your faculties. Your fight or flight instincts are pinging all over the inside of your brain, looking for an escape hatch.

    The secret to getting through it all is to get fierce about protecting the people around you. You use all your physical strength to anchor your teammates against the rip tide so that the team doesn’t wash out into deeper water. You hold them tighter so that they can be warmer. You try to make them laugh, get them to sing or just do anything to get everyone’s mind off the fact that they are experiencing a gnarly challenge and many of them are scared . . . “

    So, that’s how you survive surf torture . . . (Beyond Personal Development: What I Learned From The Navy Seal Surf Torture, Huffington Post Online, 12/2015)

  • You and I – This principle speaks for itself. Where do we need to start focusing on others instead of ourselves – home, work, church, the community? Will we be on the alert for that person who crosses our path needing a word of encouragement, a laugh, or help with something they are too embarrassed to ask about? Where is fear holding us back? The late Zig Ziglar was known for his great quote of: “You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.”

” . . . But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26 NLT)

I hope this helps. There are plenty more principles out there – so look for part 3 sometime in the distant future 🙂

Blessings,

David Rische 🙂

 

 

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The Power of Being Positive

I was recently honored to be chosen for Jon Gordon’s latest Book Launch Team. This was my first time to be on a team like this, so I didn’t know what to expect. We basically read the book, posted quotes on a private FB page and Twitter, wrote a review on Amazon, and now encourage others to read/purchase it.

I have already read several of Gordon’s books – so I was envisioning a basic review of past material. Maybe a few motivational moments and inspirational stories woven throughout the chapters. This book FAR exceeded my expectations. It provides a tremendous life philosophy, testimonies of those living out his principles of positivity, and simple action steps you can immediately implement that will produce results. Don’t let the title fool you – everyone can be a leader somehow and somewhere. From the family room, boardroom, classroom (students and teachers), sports field (coaches and players), neighborhood, at any job in any position at any age, and church volunteers. All of us have the power to change ourselves and those around us in spite of circumstances. Here are my top ten quotes or insights from The Power of Positive Leadership (these come from the uncorrected proof version):

  1. “We are not positive because life is easy. We are positive because life can be hard.” (pg.7)
  2. “Pessimists don’t change the world. Critics write words but they don’t write the future. Naysayers talk about problems but they don’t solve them. Throughout history we see that it’s the optimists, the believers, the dreamers, the doers, and the positive leaders who change the world.” (pg. 9)
  3. “Your most important job as leader is to drive the culture – and not just any culture. You must create a positive culture that energizes and encourages people, fosters connected relationships and great teamwork, empowers and enables people to learn and grow, and provides an opportunity for people to do their best work.” (pg. 16)
  4. (From Dr. James Gills who completed a double triathlon six times, last when he was 59 years old): “I’ve learned to talk to myself instead of listen to myself.” (J. Gordon) “Too often we listen to ourselves and hear all the complaints, self-doubt, fear, and negativity that lead to unhappiness, failure and unfulfilled goals. But just because you have a negative thought doesn’t mean you have to believe it.” (pg. 52)
  5. “Anyone pursuing anything worthwhile will fail and fail often. I certainly have failed many times, but when I look back I realize I wasn’t failing, I was growing, I was becoming.” (pg. 54)
  6. ” . . . fear and faith have one thing in common. They both believe in a future that hasn’t happened yet.  . . .  Why wouldn’t we choose to believe in a positive future? Why wouldn’t we choose to believe our best days are ahead of us, not behind us.” (pg. 66)
  7. “One of the biggest mistakes leaders make is that they ignore the negativity within their team and organization. They allow it to breed and grow, and it eventually sabotages the team and organization. You must address the negativity. Confront it, transform it, or remove it.” (pg. 71)
  8. “People follow the leader first and their vision second. What you say is important, but who you are is even more important.” (pg.101)
  9. “Positive communicators also spread positive gossip. Instead of sharing negative gossip, be the kind of communicator who spreads positive news about people.” (pg. 111)
  10. “However with leadership comes scrutiny, praise, critics, and attacks. A leader could find a cure for cancer and would still have some people criticize them for it . . . Positive leaders don’t work in a tranquil sea of positivity, but in the storms of adversity and negativity. Leadership is knowing that the critics will criticize you but still saying what needs to be said and doing what needs to be done.” (pg. 175)

Phew! I could easily had triple the amount of quotes. This is a life changing book to have on your shelf, and re-read at least once a year. Available on Amazon or at your favorite retailer.

Blessings,

Dave 🙂

 

 

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